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The more you live life avoiding conflict, flattening it, erasing it, silencing it, smoothing it over, to keep your mental peace and convince yourself that you have well-maintained boundaries, the ever larger the conflict will grow until it’s crushing you under its large, black, boot.
Intent is incredibly difficult to determine, and, you know, people shouldn’t assume malice, because reality is vast, complex, and chaotic, with so many free variables that one subjective experience can’t hope to hold them all at once in its cognition. To do so is unwise, as any reliance on a falsehood chains one to its maintenance. The modern young man appreciates a muse that yearns more for freedom than servitude, at least, until they’re married. When it comes time, though, to socially defend yourself against individuals who have…
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Giancarlo Vanzzini, Mark (Hugo (Derrick)) @MoviePira_te, is thee lolcow, and I’m one of many social correctors the likes of which he was extolling the virtues of as “serving a function in society.” I’m not a troll though, oh no, that’s what Giancarlo is: the type of online person who plays a particular kind of “silly” game and expects everyone to “take it” and become their frenemy, or something. I’m not really sure as it’s super fucked up. They believe that attitude makes them adult, mature, or superior in…
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If anonymity is toxic, removing anonymity would reduce toxicity. If people reading negative things into what you write and then haranguing you over it is toxic, then taking what someone writes at face value would reduce toxicity. There are several possible explanations for why these solutions might not seem appropriate for reducing toxicity, despite people complaining about its sources: There are many other reasons why, as people are creatures of vast possibilities, but these are a solid mainstay for describing most of the baffling contradictions that pop up…
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The lions and the lambs ain’t sleeping yet.
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What will help with me is if you stop assuming what my thoughts, feelings, and motivations are, and if you stopped assuming that every one of those things you’ve assumed, *sigh* , is bad, negative, malicious, dangerous, or cruel. What will help with me is if you stop believing every thing I do that you don’t approve of is a pathological symptom of a disorder, a lack of impulse control, a dangerous, uncontrollable, and unstoppable aspect of who I am and who I refuse to be. What will…
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If you cannot control whether something bothers you, then moral responsibility shifts entirely onto other people’s speech and behavior. EDIT: Liana, because of you, an increasing number of people screech at me and tell me I don’t know what I’m talking about every time I tell them who I am, let alone warn them of anything. Being a YouTuber that makes 3+ videos a week with varying success and pretty much the same audience every day, I’d think you’d be happy someone is actively asking you to cover…
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Mark (Hugo ((Derrick)), ’cause I guess he’s into LISP or something now. Who knows where Mark came from, Markiplier? Dr. Mark Bourrie? Who the fuck knows, and who the fuck cares? Not this guy! Whatever, the guy’s name is Giancarlo Vanzzini, and allegedly he works for Tencent Americas as a Database Administrator, as you can see in my fine post here: The above screenshotted post was made on September 3rd, 2024 according to my records. It’s probably still up, but I’m tired of going to this cringey as…
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A tale of two Giancarlo Vanzzinis, though I’m sure there are many more. My second unrequited crush also had many faces for many people and groups. None of this is a mystery to me.