Anything?

What will help with me is if you stop assuming what my thoughts, feelings, and motivations are, and if you stopped assuming that every one of those things you’ve assumed, *sigh* , is bad, negative, malicious, dangerous, or cruel. What will help with me is if you stop believing every thing I do that you don’t approve of is a pathological symptom of a disorder, a lack of impulse control, a dangerous, uncontrollable, and unstoppable aspect of who I am and who I refuse to be. What will help with me is for you to stop “misremembering,” overreaching, and discussing falsehoods in public places like your Discord server, saying nothing as others make judgments that you *have* to know aren’t fair or based in fact. What will help with me is if you faced the conflict, and addressed the grievance directly, honestly, and with vulnerable authenticity instead of the constant intentionally vague misdirections, diversions, and other profound avoidances. What will help with me is you not telling people that every thing I say, not just about you, but about myself, is wrong, false, and that you, my friend, really know the truth, and that the truth is that I’m a terrible, dangerous person who doesn’t understand consent and is unable to respect boundaries. What will help if with me is if you stop telling others I’m behind horrible, vitriolic messages amounting to death threats from anonymous sources, and instead, considered that our protests might be correct so that we can focus on the actually dangerous individual in our midst. What will help with me is you caring instead of looking like you care.