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One last thing to address today, having come back. Audrey ( bsky.app/profile/did:… ) posted this while I was temp banned due to “harassment.” It is a prime example of a couple manipulations: lying by omission, shifting blame or context, vilifying, and all things along those lines.

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One last thing to address today, having come back.

Audrey ( bsky.app/profile/did:… ) posted this while I was temp banned due to "harassment."

It is a prime example of a couple manipulations: lying by omission, shifting blame or context, vilifying, and all things along those lines.

2025-05-29 00:51:47.179 / 3lqbitwbeqg2w
- Wanderer Q: @hellscapewanderer.bsky.social • 2d I'm probably going to regret this, but apparently the entitled dumbass that has been obsessively posting about people he has beef with, and tried to entangle Vivid by tagging her and went nuclear on both of us for being asked not to, has been banned from Bsky for harrassment. Good riddance. Wanderer 9- @hellscapewanderer.bsky.social

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To his equally unhinged husband, we don't, and never did, care if you talk about them. Go to town. Just fuck off and leave *us* out of it. May 25, 2025 at 9:07 PM 4 likes

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I explain in to-the-point detail:

Audrey likes to do this kind of thing in almost *every* direct and indirect interaction she has had with me.

2025-05-29 00:51:47.180 / 3lqbitxg6hw2w

She isn't including some very important details as part of her and her girlfriend's (Saige Alexis) efforts to 'erase' *my* 'context' (something Saige complained about me).

2025-05-29 00:51:47.181 / 3lqbityo3sw2w

For anyone wondering, since her handle is deemed invalid, you can access her profile here with this: bsky.app/profile/did:…

I suspect that Saige altered her required DNS entries in an attempt for me to not be able to have anyone tag her, or at least, not me.

2025-05-29 00:51:47.182 / 3lqbityo4s62w

tl;dr version: what she isn't mentioning is that I have a specific grievance with them after they treated me and my husband *horribly* and with ableist, sexist, and racist *disdain* because I wouldn't bend over backwards to meet their demands.

In essence: I said 'no' and they can't accept it.

2025-05-29 00:51:47.183 / 3lqbityo5rg2w

I'm not 'lumping' them in with my beef. I'm not saying they are responsible for Poppy, or my beef with Liana. I've never 'dragged' them into anything. They manufactured their own beef with me through their despicably indulgent behavior, insisting they "knew" everything about my situation.

2025-05-29 00:51:47.184 / 3lqbityo5rh2w

Spoiler: They did not. But that *does* mean that people are talking about in private conversations, and it's obviously very biased and inaccurate.

2025-05-29 00:51:47.185 / 3lqbityo5ri2w

I don't need to tag anyone anymore, so I won't. There you go. It was a big nothing win though. Hope you're happy having achieved nothing of significance. Doesn't stop me from speaking my mind in my online channels.

2025-05-29 00:51:47.186 / 3lqbityo5rj2w

Audrey (and even Saige in her 'address') doesn't, and don't, mention the following factual information of which I have already provided a response and evidence, such as the quoted-very-long-thread.

More quote-posts in a separate reply-branch to this post.

2025-05-29 00:51:47.187 / 3lqbityo5rk2w

Saige asked why I put her in this list:

2025-05-29 00:51:47.188 / 3lqbityo6qs2w

I responded:

2025-05-29 00:51:47.189 / 3lqbityqlvk2w
Asher Wolfstein @asher.wolfste.in • 19h (Indeed a small campaign by one person, Giancarlo Vanzzini giancarlovanzzini.com, has been attempted against me, but no one cared enough to join.

Asher Wolfstein (@asher.wolfste.in) I actually have *another* stalker type person as well. This one's from *Mrs. Kerzner's community* actually. His name is Giancarlo Vanzzini. His Linkedin ... © giancarlovanzzini.com Asher Wolfstein @asher.wolfste.in • 19h I haven't met any threshold for harassment in any objective terms. I simply state my opinion about my life and my interactions with others on my timeline, which is a perfectly normal behavior and expectation on a speech platform built just for this. Asher Wolfstein @asher.wolfste.in • 19h I do it in the same manner really as @ladydiabolique.bsky.social, @vividfaegarden.com, @zenaandpoppy.bsky.social, @galaxybunny.bsky.social, @wyles.bsky.social (who has unblocked me?), and company, only I make different choices. Saige | youtube.com/@VividFae@vividfaegarden.com • 14h Idk if you noticed, but I'm also on that list (apparently I'm "both sides- ing my own suicide attempt lol). So I wouldn't use their standards as a justification, given that their standards are entirely dependent on if you agree with them. Saige | youtube.com/@VividFae @vividfaegarden.com • 14h I also take a very different approach to my online presence than Poppy does. I used to do the BPD social chameleon thing where I took on a lot of her mannerisms & behaviors as a way to keep the relationship intact, but since breaking away I've mostly shed that. Saige | youtube.com/@VividFae @vividfaegarden.com • 14h

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Saige | youtube.com/@VividFae @vividfaegarden.com • 9h Idk if you noticed, but I'm also on that list (apparently I'm "both sides- ing my own suicide attempt lol). So I wouldn't use their standards as a justification, given that their standards are entirely dependent on if you agree with them. Saige | youtube.com/@VividFae@vividfaegarden.com • 9h I also take a very different approach to my online presence than Poppy does. I used to do the BPD social chameleon thing where I took on a lot of her mannerisms & behaviors as a way to keep the relationship intact, but since breaking away l've mostly shed that. 01 Saige | youtube.com/@VividFae @vividfaegarden.com • 9h I make vague posts still, sure. But like *actual* ones. Not just posting an entire situation with nothing left to the imagination & just refusing to name the person. I've defended myself from shit targeting me. & I spoke out about the real abuse & manipulation I suffered. Poppy doesn't do that. Saige | youtube.com/@VividFae@vividfaegarden.com 9h Poppy's approach is to sexually harass people who agree with her, verbally abuse & harass those that don't (while implicitly encouraging her friends to do it too), & constantly post every thought she has without any regard for anyone else. Saige | youtube.com/@VividFae@vividfaegarden.com • 9h I say all of this to say that I don't care if you want to defend yourself but please don't lump me in with them & trying to appeal to the idea that you're just meeting their standards of engagement is not gonna convince those around them & doesn't paint you well to those of us that aren't. Asher Wolfstein @asher.wolfste.in • 4h I did notice that you were on that list and how ridiculous that is as well. There was to be another@, @redlianak.bsky.social but that somehow got edited out without me noticing. The major appeal I'm making is the one l posted in this thread already as quoted below. € Asher Wolfstein @asher.wolfste.in • 14h I haven't met any threshold for harassment in any ob…
Asher Wolfstein @asher.wolfste.in - 4h I did notice that you were on that list and how ridiculous that is as well. There was to be another@, @redlianak.bsky.social but that somehow got edited out without me noticing. The major appeal I'm making is the one I posted in this thread already as quoted below. Asher Wolfstein @asher.wolfste.in • 14h I haven't met any threshold for harassment in any objective terms. I simply state my opinion about my life and my interactions with others on my timeline, which is a perfectly normal behavior and expectation on a speech platform built just for this. Asher Wolfstein @asher.wolfste.in • 4h That's always been my appeal or point. I've stated it multiple times before this as well but I don't expect you to have known that. I made it more specific in terms of content this time because I have come to believe people don't take the assertion seriously since my timeline isn't like theirs. Asher Wolfstein @asher.wolfste.in • 4h I don't focus on having an affirming "community," positive things, humor, or whatever I'm supposed to focus on. But it *is* in various form or fashion at one time or another like the timelines of the individuals I've listed, including yours. That's the only way I'm lumping you in with anyone else. Asher Wolfstein @asher.wolfste.in • 4h I've continued to state the fact that not only do I use these platforms like anyone else might, but I have the right to do so like anyone else, in response to accusations, insinuations, and responses from @redlianak.bsky.social and @ladydiabolique.bsky.social suggesting otherwise. Asher Wolfstein @asher.wolfste.in • 4h To them, any of our defenses, if I may, are inappropriate, unhinged, cross moral boundaries, harassment, stalking, lying, centers them as a plea for their attention or an adopted faux opposition only because of their rejection, ... 01 Asher Wolfstein @asher.wolfste.in • 4h and could even require legal sanctions such as restraining orders, all because they aren't the one…
Asher Wolfstein @asher.wolfste.in • 4h and could even require legal sanctions such as restraining orders, all because they aren't the ones doing it, as in, they aren't defending us as an appeal to their own magnanimity. That makes it inconvenient and dangerous so it must be discredited. In doing so they propose that what I post ... Asher Wolfstein @asher.wolfste.in • 4h is immoral, inappropriate, harassment, a product of lunacy, an unacceptable lack of impulse control, and shouldn't be allowed. Asher Wolfstein @asher.wolfste.in • 4h Yet, when Willy, for example, decides fascists should be tortured to death due to them regarding others as subhuman, and then immediately claims others he's annoyed with are subhuman and should die, there seems scant a criticism that I've seen. Asher Wolfstein @asher.wolfste.in • 4h No blocks, no lists... instead legitimate disagreement as if what they have to say is valuable, compared to my original abhorrent behavior. Asher Wolfstein @asher.wolfste.in • 4h You'd also be remiss to not notice I wrote that I make different choices. I'm not appealing to anyone to gain their approval, and definitely not because I'm allowing myself to meet their standards or that I'm justified because I'm acting like them. Asher Wolfstein @asher.wolfste.in • 4h I'm not acting like them, I'm acting like me. I meet my standards, which are much higher than theirs. 01 Asher Wolfstein @asher.wolfste.in • 4h You make choices too, such as associating yourself with that group in the past and so on, so here we are. I'm glad you're distancing yourself, but you're still defending and justifying yourself against what you read into versus what l've said. • Audrey 8 @hellscapewanderer.bsky.social • 1h I think what you're missing is that, regardless of what they *say* that list is, it's not actually *about* harrassment or has any connection to your actual actions or positions. It's Zenas personal "bad people" list. That's all it's ever been. It's for people in the Foundati…

I think that Saige and Audrey didn't like that answer: "I don't focus on having an affirming 'community,' positive things, humor, or whatever I'm supposed to focus on. …

2025-05-29 00:51:47.190 / 3lqbiu7uwk22w

… But it *is* in various form or fashion at one time or another like the timelines of the individuals I've listed, including yours. That's the only way I'm lumping you in with anyone else."

2025-05-29 00:51:47.191 / 3lqbiu7uwk32w

There it is, right there, "That's the only way I'm lumping you in with anyone else."

2025-05-29 00:51:47.192 / 3lqbiu7uxjd2w

Saige and Audrey insisted on several things from there on out without budging an inch: that I was comparing Saige's online behavior to Poppy's (I wasn't then, I came to do so after this because of this),

2025-05-29 00:51:47.193 / 3lqbiu7uxje2w

that I was unjustly harming Saige somehow by coercing her into viewing my post (because I tagged her), then not respecting her demand I don't talk about her, and that my husband traumatized her.

2025-05-29 00:51:47.194 / 3lqbiu7uxjf2w

This ignores that *she* chose to read it, *she* chose to reply, *she* chose to pursue the ridiculous argument, *she's* the one that decided to drag it out, piquing my interest with her demands and awful treatment to the point I now have a personal criticism of her and her girlfriend.

2025-05-29 00:51:47.195 / 3lqbiu7uxjg2w

How did my husband traumatize her? Saige invented, out of thin air, an interpretation of what I was writing I didn't even imagine: that I was *comparing* my 'trauma' and victimization at Poppy's hands with hers.

2025-05-29 00:51:47.196 / 3lqbiu7uxjh2w

I was not. Maus was not. Neither of us were. We kept stating that, which only appeared to further agitate Saige and Audrey. I believe the ploy was to belittle whatever was going on with me, make themselves the most important people in the conversation, and get their way.

2025-05-29 00:51:47.197 / 3lqbiu7uyip2w

But, that doesn't work with me, and *I* said 'no,' and here we are.

2025-05-29 00:51:47.198 / 3lqbiu7uyiq2w

In this entire very dramatic process (where Saige trotted out Cerise, her alter, to indicate she was in crisis, because I guess disappearing for 2 weeks would be worse) it became clear that, judging by everything she was writing,

2025-05-29 00:51:47.199 / 3lqbiu7uyir2w

Saige *needed* desperately to be the biggest most important victim to have 'control' over some narrative I don't even want or consider myself part of. I don't do groups.

2025-05-29 00:51:47.200 / 3lqbiu7uyis2w

We told her, "Okay, go ahead, do that, but don't diminish whatever the fuck's going on with us because you insist I'm comparing our suffering. We *never* did that. *You* did that."

2025-05-29 00:51:47.201 / 3lqbiu7uyit2w

After Saige/Cerise posted sexist, and then straight-up racist, assertions to a third-world Ecuadorian man (towards me), and Audrey posted incredibly ableist retorts, all culminating in Saige breaking her own opsec and revealing something she didn't want to reveal,

2025-05-29 00:51:47.202 / 3lqbiu7uyiu2w

it rapidly devolved into demands that I don't contact them (fine), don't tag them, never mention them again, (maybe even delete it all), and "leave them alone," because they are perpetual victims of everyone including my awful deranged manic comparisons (that I never made, they did).

2025-05-29 00:51:47.203 / 3lqbiu7uyiv2w

This was wrapped up, just as I had outlined in my first response, in a vague threat of legal action (a protection order of some kind, as Saige would 'explore' her options) as well as a vague death threat (Audrey wrote she was, "*DEADLY* serious," to which I wrote, "Are you going to shoot me?"

2025-05-29 00:51:47.204 / 3lqbiu7uyiw2w

Unacceptable.

And *I* was the one suspended for 72 hours due to "harassment." They've been fine.

2025-05-29 00:51:47.205 / 3lqbiu7uzi62w

This was play by play, post by post, *exactly* the way Poppy had 'engaged' with me, the way Liana had talked to me, sans actual legal threats, and now Audrey and Saige, despite insisting they *don't.* That's not the new *context,* and I was erasing it.

2025-05-29 00:51:47.206 / 3lqbiu7uzi72w

And my response? I asserted my right to write what I want, and told them, and everyone else, "You're an adult. If you want to file, then file. Do whatever you feel necessary. Likewise, I'll challenge it as much as necessary."

2025-05-29 00:51:47.207 / 3lqbiu7uzia2w

I haven't received any notices. I haven't had any authorities contact me. I haven't had any surveillance that I know of. I haven't had any check-ins… and I'm concerned, I don't know what's taking so long since I'm so terrible and they are in so much danger, apparently.

2025-05-29 00:51:47.208 / 3lqbiu7uzib2w

And then, they decided that angle wasn't working, so they reverted to, "Social media isn't public! In fact, public spaces aren't public! Everything I determine to be private is private, on any whim or feeling I have, especially being unsafe."

2025-05-29 00:51:47.209 / 3lqbiu7uzic2w

But you *can't be publicly private, or privately public.* What the heck does that mean? Well, I explored that and moved on.

2025-05-29 00:51:47.210 / 3lqbiu7uzid2w

But, round and round and round and round we go:

2025-05-29 00:51:47.211 / 3lqbiu7v2hl2w
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Frozen take here but social media being public does not erase you of your right to personal privacy May 28, 2025 at 4:00 PM 83 Everybody can reply 1 like

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They are stuck in a fantasy.

2025-05-29 00:51:47.212 / 3lqbiuam5pt2w

It *doesn't* erase the right you have to *personal privacy* because it's public. What it being public means is this: whatever you put out there, into the public, *isn't* personally private, because it's now public.

2025-05-29 00:51:47.213 / 3lqbiuam5pu2w

*You* put it there. *You* made it public, and then decide you want to restrict it somehow when it becomes inconvenient, otherwise you enjoy your audience just fine.

2025-05-29 00:51:47.214 / 3lqbiuam5pv2w

So which is it? Is it public and you have an audience you put on a show for? Or is it private, and thus, people have to seek it out and somehow leak it *to the public*?

2025-05-29 00:51:47.215 / 3lqbiuam5pw2w

If it's so *personally private* then, who are you talking to or writing for when you write large *public* pieces meant to be read *by the public* about leaving The SZP Foundation?

2025-05-29 00:51:47.216 / 3lqbiuam5px2w

Who are you addressing when you write your faulty and self-serving statement 'addressing' what happened? The public? As in, anyone, *but* apparently me? Well, when you can fit everyone in your living room, let me know, otherwise, it's the public.

2025-05-29 00:51:47.217 / 3lqbiuam5py2w

They have nothing but these tired whim-worshiping stances that *sound* okay, kinda, but are horrible and short-sighted. They don't have anything else or anything new. They don't have an argument.

2025-05-29 00:51:47.218 / 3lqbiuam5pz2w

They wont' make an argument. The refuse to address what I say, as per the modus operandi of everyone involved. They won't counter. They won't try to refine their argument. They won't say how I'm wrong.

Instead, following in Poppy, and then Liana's footsteps they use mental health stigma:

2025-05-29 00:51:47.219 / 3lqbiuam6pb2w

Any coherent thing I say, even when I'm *imitating Liana* point by point, even line by line, is completely incomprehensible because I'm "unhinged."

2025-05-29 00:51:47.220 / 3lqbiuam6pc2w

I'm always nuts unless I'm doing what people want me to do. Normativity much?

I'll quote Liana and say, "Personal responsibility is a thing."

2025-05-29 00:51:47.221 / 3lqbiuam6pd2w

They are demanding that I fuck off and leave *them* out of the beef I have *with them.* A very specific one that revolves around what *they did* and tried to erase. It don't work like that, and is double-speak for "just stop talking about us entirely or else."

2025-05-29 00:56:49.163 / 3lqbj4wb6zd2w

Funny enough, I've already moved on from what they did to me, and how horribly they acted. I don't really care anymore, I already resolved it, stating a case and a side far more damning and effective than of the overly-wrought intellectual faffing about they've done.

2025-05-29 00:56:49.164 / 3lqbj4wjcrt2w

In my opinion, that's why they want it deleted; that's why they want my account gone. It's not a good look.

The more they keep bringing it up or vague-booking about me, like Saige's latest Skeet may be doing (I don't now, and it doesn't matter), I'll respond to it, on my timeline, away from them.

2025-05-29 00:56:49.165 / 3lqbj4wjdr32w

And, hahaha, they post saying "we never cared if you talk about 'them'" as if that means anything.

2025-05-29 01:12:10.808 / 3lqbjyf7jyd2w

That's not what he wrote, nor what he cares about. She must've never taken care to notice that we don't give a fuck whether she cares or not, it's not a negotiation, she has no influence here.

2025-05-29 01:12:10.809 / 3lqbjyfeo2d2w

We're not appealing for her permission, omg, like, haha, she could give any. The self-importance of these people!

2025-05-29 01:12:10.810 / 3lqbjyfeo2e2w

Also, how the fuck am I entitled? I'm really curious. I really want to know. Entitled to what? To saying 'no,' I'm not going to do that, and I don't have to do that? To saying 'no' in general to whatever whim you imagine?

2025-05-29 01:12:10.811 / 3lqbjyfeo2f2w

I didn't try to entangle Vivid Corporation. I don't care about Vivid Corporation. I listed her in that list for the reason I gave. Simple. That was it.

2025-05-29 01:12:10.812 / 3lqbjyfeozn2w

Saige, front representative for Vivid Corporation, decided it was *all* these other things that she was either in charge of, more qualified for (to tell and handle *my* story), or a victim of (a comparison we never made).

2025-05-29 01:12:10.813 / 3lqbjyfeozo2w

You showed up and manufactured a spectacle, placing a target on your backs, and then blamed me so you could be victims of big bad Asher too. That's how *I* see it, if you see it that way.

2025-05-29 01:12:10.814 / 3lqbjyfeozp2w

I didn't "go nuclear." I posted a lot of words. *A lot* of words. As I do. If you "knew" all you knew, everything I did should've been expected, no big surprise, and yet… it was. It always is.

2025-05-29 01:12:10.815 / 3lqbjyfeozq2w

Maybe you guys *do not know* what you've been led to believe you know, and *that* should really tell you something. But, I'm sure it won't.

2025-05-29 01:12:10.816 / 3lqbjyfeozr2w

Also, I had no issue with you asking to not be tagged. I just didn't comply. I stated a reason, and was done. I said I understood what you were saying, and that I considered it, and I rejected the proposal, because that's what it was. It was a request turned demand, not a boundary.

2025-05-29 01:12:10.817 / 3lqbjyfepyz2w

*You* went 'nuclear' because I said no. Because I didn't just give in. I didn't play out the "social contract" you make up in your head that I never agreed to. I had *zero interest* in fighting with you, comparing anything to you, or even thinking about you, but I did after that!

2025-05-29 01:12:10.818 / 3lqbjyfepz22w

You tried so hard to make it a boundary by then manufacturing an entire spectacle that you could be victims of and write 'addresses' about to your publicly personally private audience.

2025-05-29 01:12:10.819 / 3lqbjyfepz32w

But, now, I'm not banned, because, ultimately, I'm *not* harassing anyone. Someone disagreed with you Audrey, I'm not 'unhinged' enough to merit banning.

2025-05-29 01:12:10.820 / 3lqbjyfepz42w

In fact, given the ban, people are actively attempting to
*silence* me, *and my friends.*

*I* think that's unhinged, much like announcing "wunk season" in a veiled threat of violence against a "a pedo" which were never my words.

2025-05-29 01:17:06.020 / 3lqbkb6qoxr2w

At the risk of whataboutism, I have to ask, what about that guy? Are you talking to that guy? Why are you the only one that said anything besides that account?

2025-05-29 01:17:06.021 / 3lqbkb6xawj2w

I can tell you, whether you listen or not, I am 99% certain he's not who he's telling you he is. I have pretty solid evidence I have not shared, because I don't 'live' online and I'm not stupid. However, there's *always* a chance I'm wrong.

2025-05-29 01:17:06.022 / 3lqbkb6xbvr2w

And *he does not like you.* He does not like liberals. He does not like gay people. He's a registered republican, a negligent caretaker, and wants to see all of us destroy each other or ourselves, which is why he triangulates as much as possible. He isn't your friend Audrey.

2025-05-29 01:17:06.023 / 3lqbkb6xbvs2w

I know him, personally, in real life. He's *none* of our friends. He's dangerous. He has and *will* manufacture whatever he feels necessary to feed his ego, and it's *possible, * he's at your virtual doorstep. And you want to focus so much on me.

What about him?

2025-05-29 01:17:06.024 / 3lqbkb6xbvt2w

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