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Bluesky: (Maybe) she doesn’t weaponize her BPD (I disagree) but… She definitely weaponized mine!…

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(Maybe) she doesn’t weaponize her BPD (I disagree) but… She definitely weaponized mine! Probably not the first time she’s done that…

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(Maybe) she doesn’t weaponize her BPD (I disagree) but…

She definitely weaponized mine!

Probably not the first time she’s done that…

2025-04-01 17:13:17.946 / 3llrenm5rwc2n
The One, The Only, Poppy Diabolique ... • 9h The joke, of course, is that Lux went at me for false rumors of going after "barely legal" trans girls. Why use a porn term? Fuck if I know. Lux also claims I threatened suicide to keep my rapist. Would love to see that receipt because it simply doesn't exist. I do not weaponize my BPD. Full stop. 2 11 •
Zena & Poppy - On Hiatus Due To Several Factors @ZenaAndPoppy I never once claimed I was a victim. I claimed that excessively posting makes it impossible to respond to every point. This is called a gish gallop. There is nothing manipulative about calling a spade a spade or choosing to disengage from a conversation. You are splitting. Stop. HERE BITCH TAKE THIS SINCE YOU WANNA PROJECT Asher Wolfstein （アッシャ・ウルフシュタイン） @asherwolfste • 21m Replying to @asherwolfstein @ZenaAndPoppy and @JessPected all, and I've challenged the questionable parts. Now you're suddenly a victim. Nice try. This was uncomfortable for me the second you said, 'how does this relate to what I said?' and I should've known then. My BPD was right, which is sad. You are very manipulative, and it shows /

And what did a post like that, from a license therapist (acting in her private life) and her running to Liana to complain, cry, or demand she fix the issue (I have no idea) contribute to? The believability of all of this and much more:

2025-04-01 17:14:51.409 / 3llreqfc3ec2n
Liana Kerzner @redlianak.bsky.social • 17d Dear cut rate trolls: if you're going to try to impersonate someone with 3 college degrees to harass me, don't misspell "hypocrisy". Unlike your prime target, I don't jump at every bit of bait. Stop torturing a profoundly mentally ill guy while you're at it. He makes enough problems for himself.
Liana Kerzner @redlianak.bsky.social • 2mo • Reply to Liana Kerzner 5) This person was so abusive in the conversation I tried to have with him that when I made a misstep and apologized for it, he would not acknowledge it. When I asked him clearly whether he'd seen the apology, his response was "Yes, You want a reward?" There was no empathy. 1 111 •
Liana Kerzner @redlianak.bsky.social • 2mo • Reply to Growly Bite Bite Yeah this same person also denied exploding, but it was a very long chain of posts. So he's being cruel and is an asshole, but I figured I'd take the opportunity to push back on stigma.
Liana Kerzner @redlianak.bsky.social • 2mo Yeah the person who did it is trying to excuse himself by saying I don't care about another person with a mental illness. And it's not true. I just had to set boundaries. It's a bunch of excuses for cruel and vindictive behaviour and deliberately hitting my triggers. 1 • 3 •

My detailed posts (she used to defend) are now manic, the number of them indicate explosions (that was about my husband tho), I have no empathy and we are abusive, vindictive, and cruel, and …

2025-04-01 17:16:16.536 / 3llreswhvak2n
Liana Kerzner @redlianak.bsky.social • 21d • Reply to Liana Kerzner Yes, this is cryptic. Yes, I hate it. No, I will not say further because I'm working under the theory that the person doing the doxxing is trying to hurt third parties to force me to talk to him. It's not going to happen. Harassing people is why I stopped talking to him.
Liana Kerzner @redlianak.bsky.social Follow Yep. Sorry you had to deal with that buzzsaw of lunacy. March 13, 2025 at 9:19 PM
"The delays were due to mental health issues in the home and culminated in the ... December 10, 2024 at 8:11 PM 1 Asher Wolfstein @asher.wolfste.in • 3mо team member's spouse taking a very public shot on Twitter at a transwoman they knew was being harassed by KiwiFarms, using a narrative they knew was being circulated on the Farms and that perpetuated both transphobia and mental health stigma. 口1 Asher Wolfstein @asher.wolfste.in • 3mо "I will not repeat the statement because I'm not looking for a debate on whether I'm in the right in my opinions here. To be clear, criticism is part of being on social media, but these comments went, I believe, over the criticism line. ... 1 ••• Asher Wolfstein @asher.wolfste.in • 3mо Even if you don't like someone, doing or saying things that could reasonably create a more
Asher Wolfstein @asher.wolfste.in • 3mo Even if you don't like someone, doing or saying things that could reasonably create a more dangerous situation because the person is already near the end of their rope is not something I can defend. Asher Wolfstein @asher.wolfste.in • 3mо "Yes, the person who did it had their reasons. I just don't think they were terribly good ones considering all the factors. "I insisted that this person commit to a mutually agreed upon concrete plan going forward to address their unacceptable lack of impulse control and ..• 1 ... Asher Wolfstein @asher.wolfste.in • 3mо other issues that led to this reckless and potentially dangerous behavior so something like this never happened again. "This person would not comply with this process. [ED: This is false, so false, and I can prove it.]

now I’m maybe sending disturbing messages and it’s believable: it’s established that I split on people and am deeply disturbed.

None of these claims are objective, they’re just her opinion. An opinion, mind you, she never told me about and then suddenly firmly believed and broadcast to everyone.

2025-04-01 17:17:38.887 / 3llrevez25c2n
"It had been building for a while and I erred on the side of trying to understand the unstable person and not betraying confidence instead of dealing with the bad behavior. I take responsibility for that error ... December 10, 2024 at 8:11 PM
Asher Wolfstein @asher.wolfste.in • 3m "I can't control this person's behavior. The only thing I can control is whether the project exists to tie them to me. The eventual confrontation between me, this individual, and their spouse resulted in a very ugly fight, and it's left me too 口1 • • • Asher Wolfstein @asher.wolfste.in • 3mо depleted to pick myself up and try to find a new collaborator. I'm just beaten. "My stress levels are not healthy and, well, I can't in good conscience bring anyone new on because, again, of the reality of being on KiwiFarm's radar. ... 1 • • Asher Wolfstein @asher.wolfste.in • 3mо While I was previously known to KiwiFarms, it wasn't this much of an issue until this person began repeatedly provoking them.

None of what I’ve said here that I’m accused of is true objectively true. I have not done these things.

2025-04-01 17:18:05.833 / 3llrew6p2tc2n

I’ve been systematically set up since my disagreement with Poppy, where I set my own boundary of not accepting her narrative, to be vulnerable to this kind of abuse by impersonation simply because they didn’t like what I said.

2025-04-01 17:18:38.058 / 3llrex5ghlc2n

I knew something like this would happen. I rang alarm bells. I pushed back at being shoved into such a position by pointing out how a Peer Counselor and Therapist have created this situation over a “Twitter beef” that even her new detractors can see was nothing, but it threatened to expose too much.

2025-04-01 17:19:08.378 / 3llrey2drwk2n

And they act surprised, and of course very stressed, but I don’t think they are, which is a chilling thought.

Let me remind you that Poppy is a big advocate of #BPD:

2025-04-01 17:20:07.649 / 3llrezsuukk2n
The One, The Only, Poppy Diabolique 1... • 1d Hello all, my name is Poppy. I am a #transwoman & #therapist. My interests include #Sapphic #FanFiction, #ZenBuddhism, & #Furry Art. I identify as #nonmonogamous. I also have & advocate for #BPD & deal with #chronicillness in the form of #migraines. #Promosky Support me: gofund.me/068f5531

Her unrelenting advocacy and behavior meant to destigmatize #BPD has done nothing but the opposite for my very real non-social-media-packaged Borderline Personality Disorder.

2025-04-01 17:36:39.079 / 3llrfxeen4s2n

Her and Mrs. Kerzner continue to do, in response to my complaints over their misrepresentations and lies, exactly what they’re against: they reasonably contribute to an already precariously dangerous situation in an effort to maintain their self-images rather than address anything I say.

2025-04-01 17:36:39.080 / 3llrfxep52s2n

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