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It was interpreted as transphobia, unfairly so in my opinion. I am not transphobic. But if something I said was unknowingly transphobic somehow I apologize and I would love to know where I went wrong. …
2025-01-14 04:45:19.162 / 3lfogx7w5ik2j
All I’ve heard was “manipulative,” which I was first told was a BPD stereotype and mental health stigma, quoted in the follow up video. Now it’s a transphobic stereotype so it seems suspect. Anything else? Finally, I was not the one that exploded. …
2025-01-14 04:45:19.163 / 3lfogxbuses2j
I actually took precautions not to explode, and Mrs. Kerzner hated it, almost like she wanted me to explode for some reason.
I then was engaged in the most harrowing, resentful, and relentlessly troll-like cruel “argument” (mostly me apologizing) with a friend of *five* years that I’ve experienced.
2025-01-14 04:45:19.164 / 3lfogxbuvck2j
Someone I held in equal esteem with my husband, a true rarity, that I considered one of my closest friends (an even greater rarity) with whom I had confided much, including my struggles with my father’s suicide (starved himself to death in front of us all) and my intelligence and …
2025-01-14 04:58:51.799 / 3lfohpgvmis2j
strangeness in a small mountain tourist town growing up, proceeded to rip into me, stripping me of all defense, all intention, all abilities to have an honest discussion, belittling my intelligence, my world view, and finally letting loose with …
2025-01-14 04:58:51.800 / 3lfohphee6k2j
all the resentment she had built up over my unsavory behavior (in her eyes) that she had never told me about until then, and then proceeded to tell me, after my husband complained, that …
2025-01-14 04:58:51.801 / 3lfohphef5s2j
it wasn’t cruel because it was tough love that I needed to accept and if it seemed cruel…
It was because I was *broken.*
2025-01-14 04:58:51.802 / 3lfohpheh4c2j
Mrs. Kerzner is not a safe weird person in weird spaces. She is a normative predator in oppressed clothing. She will hold in her resentments and what she really thinks, claiming she’s afraid, and never give you an opportunity to know where you stand. The moment you are inconvenient to her business…
2025-01-14 04:58:51.803 / 3lfohphei3k2j
she will unleash it upon you to break you down and remake you in her image, purposefully. If it doesn’t work and it fails, then it was a “trauma response” that she just can’t control despite recovering from CPTSD. I have been in therapy for 23 years over my Borderline, and …
2025-01-14 04:58:51.804 / 3lfohphek222j
I knew to take 2.5 weeks to reach baseline and stop depedestaling her in my mind so we could have a rational discussion.
I did not get a rational discussion. I got cruelty she had been holding back for a long time.
But, yes, I’m the problem, I guess.
I’m *broken.*
2025-01-14 04:58:51.805 / 3lfohphekzc2j
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