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Thread: If You Can’t Deal With Opposing Opinions; Maybe You Shouldn’t Stigmatize The Mentally Ill
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I have never campaigned against anyone.
If you can’t deal with opposing opinions, maybe you shouldn’t be in the business of opinions. Criticism isn’t harassment. Neither transgenderism, identity, reputation, nor mental health conditions were used as counterarguments.
I cannot cross boundaries that weren’t clearly set, and I’m not responsible for someone enforcing their own boundaries with their behavior.
I am not to be silenced through the weaponization of ‘politeness.’
I do not invade people’s private spaces.
I do not incite mobs.
I do not make friends fall in line.
I do not spread rumors.
I do not interact positively with obvious trolls, nor participate in their campaigns.
In review, I must note something here. Poppy is a self-expressed trans individual. “Man” was not meant to be a transphobic expression. I have only known Poppy as the woman she is and don’t care otherwise. “Man.” was meant as an interjection, like “Man, anyone can do it!” or “Man, that’s bad.”
[ED August 10, 2026: The above passage, as well as many others, was copy-pasted into a message that Liana Kerzner received. Due to the not-copy-pasted sentences at the end of the screenshot message, she decided it was most likely from me because it appeared to come “from a place of guilt,” which tells you everything about the insight she claims to have as a peer counselor.]
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I understand if that (the “Man.” or “Man!” interjection) was lost, and I could’ve possibly expressed myself better, but it wasn’t a thought that crossed my mind since Poppy is nothing but a woman in my eyes. It didn’t even cross my mind.
The result:
Poppy, a licensed therapist, put me on display as a “splitting” borderline to her followers to, in my opinion, and interpretation, delegitimize my argument and opinion (in her presumedly expert opinion) as quickly as possible and make sure everyone saw how “abhorrent” I was being.
I was then told by a mutual friend (to whom both of us ran, [ED August 10, 2026: I don’t know why I wrote it like this, but that mutual friend was Liana Kerzner.]):“It’s not delegitimizing when you actually ARE going too far. ‘Manipulative’ is … thrown at BPD people unfairly and you of all people know that. So you’re in pot calling the kettle black territory here. That doesn’t mean you’re wrong.”
This mutual friend also convinced Poppy to remove the last post, but, well, you can see it above. That was very considerate, and I felt better about being dismissed twice in rapid succession, once by a close friend whose feelings I had hurt.
So, I apologized to this friend.
It did not go well.
This is the end of my TED talk. I encourage you to draw your own conclusions, because you will, and there’s nothing I would ever want to do to stop that. Thank you.
[ED August 10, 2026: Again, parts of the above passage, as well as many others, were copy-pasted into a message that Liana Kerzner received.]
I’d like to note, and “you” here is Poppy:
Suggesting I’m “berating” you and stating that you’re “uncomfortable” was a “boundary” you *made* (where?) that I *crossed* can be interpreted as you behaving like a victim. I have clearly “wronged” you by crossing a boundary.
This [interpretation] resonates further, finding a place in the moral condemnation[ED August 10, 2026:Mark Bourrie, Liana’s presumed counsel, claims that Liana Kerzner made no value judgments in her cancellation statement with regards to myself.] expressed by Liana in her video about the cancellation of Song of Sparklemuffin, which has nothing to do with me or you.
It is unnecessary to state you are a victim to be considered a victim.
Being a victim is the result of an action and also in responsive behavior. It is not something you can deny when you’re acting like one. It doesn’t have to be said.
[ED August 10, 2026:Jessica’s behavior here can be explained in part by a line of thinking I identified as part of the ‘primacy of language,’ borrowing a term from philosophy. You’ll notice that both Liana and Jessica appear to operate under the premise that if they say it, that’s the reality, as opposed to their interpretation. If they say that they weren’t cruel, then they weren’t. If they say that they clearly set a boundary, then they did, regardless of what they said. If they say they’re not a victim, then that makes them not a victim, and so on, objective reality be damned. This results in, what Liana calls later, “Accidental Gaslighting” in an episode of It’s Not Therapy, except, it’s not accidental. It’s erasure so that a new set of parameters can benefit the speaker.]
I made the case for manipulativeness by pointing out where, in your short responses, my “BPD”(as you seem to enjoy anthropomorphizing it, I was trying to match) was picking up on rhetorical techniques to try to outmaneuver what I was saying in response to what I was saying.
[ED August 10, 2026: As for the “my BPD” thing. I’ll quote BOSSFIGHT: Song of Sparklemuffin – Autopsy Report:
“Such as in the video What Happens In Dating When People Skip Step? (Disk Horse) (timestamped).Poppy: “I can’t, like, I have never been able to say that about any other partner. My BPD would just argue with me. I’m sitting there going you know my poly’s creating problems, this partner is an issue.“
“This is not a style of expression that Asher himself typically uses. However, in the course of attempting to communicate with Poppy and signal that aspects of her behavior were raising significant red flags for him, Asher mirrored the language pattern he had observed in her own posts (hence why he said “ as I might put it the way you tend to.”)Earlier in the exchange he had already mentioned that certain behaviors were triggering suspicions aligned with his BPD-related pattern recognition.
“This form of language mirroring is a common conversational technique. An active listener will sometimes adopt elements of another person’s metaphor framework—or what linguists and writers such as Matt Bird sometimes call their “metaphor family”—as a way of signaling that they have been paying attention to how the other person frames their experiences.
“Kerzner has repeatedly excerpted the phrase “My BPD was right, which is sad” while omitting the surrounding context in which Asher was mirroring Poppy’s previously established language. In doing so, she has used the statement to portray Asher as “unhinged” or as someone who believes his disorder makes him special. When viewed within the full conversational context, however, you can see this is not the case. This pattern of removing contextual framing in order to recast a statement as evidence of instability is consistent with several other conflicts involving Kerzner that have been documented earlier in this report.” ~ POPPY DIABOLIQUE/PENNY/JESSICA – BOSSFIGHT: Song of Sparklmuffin Autopsy Report]
Not having clear definitions, clear points, and clear arguments, on purpose, is manipulation.
When they’re always changing or unsteady, especially in response to challenges that make them look bad, it’s manipulative.
I know how to spot this easily.
On top of that, though, the fact you “made a boundary”(‘uncomfortable,’ I’ve gathered, is code for “boundary”) and then immediately chastised me for “crossing” it (it’s *your* boundary, but *you* came back) on a public forum indicates the boundary was supposed to silence me.
I was supposed to be polite and shut up.
And when I didn’t *you came back* to declare I crossed a boundary and was berating you, turning you into a victim. This is also a form of manipulation.
Boundaries are meant to protect people from abusers by helping them reclaim their sense of responsibility and self from the abusers who have taken it or shoved themselves into it.
I’m pretty sure of this, as it’s been hammered into me repeatedly for the last 23 years. You stated you were uncomfortable. I *expected* you to leave the conversation.
I had no expectation that you’d come back, but I expressed what I wanted to say anyway, on a public forum. You ‘punished’ me for *you* coming back.
Just block me (as you’ve done).
When I expressed that I don’t have to buy into this (as Liana has expressed recently) you took that as a failure and claimed I was essentially acting insane at you (the victim) so that nobody would take me seriously.
This interaction led Liana to accuse *me* of perpetuating mental health stigma. Let that sink in. Even now, I wonder why I was accused of this, but … I think I have an idea.
I talked about you ‘berating’ people. I meant your YouTube channel, your “disk horse,” your public persona, your opinions, and such.
Nothing in your personal life. I don’t know your personal life.
And you do [berate people], because how could your videos concerning ‘drama,’ for example, such as your own in regards to your actions and other people criticizing you (which I am not interested in), not possibly be interpreted this way?
You berate people with weird memes for political reasons all the time!
I did not take offense at you disengaging.
I took offense at your manipulative use of language, and your manipulative use of boundaries.
[ED August 10, 2026: I wrote this because Jessica suggested that I had a desire for her to stay and talk to me, which I didn’t, and that what I found manipulative was her disengagement, which I also didn’t. This is an example of a manipulative template of behavior that Liana Kerzner also also models: motivation transformation. I quote my husband’s video on my recent hospitalization titled Liana Kerzner Hospitalized My Husband (timestamped):
“Now, I want you to look at the sheer level of dishonesty here. She completely rewrote the argument, the motives, and the events. Asher didn’t doxx Naomi Paul Poru. He quoted a chat from a Discord server that you can access for $1. That is not doxxing. However, it is convenient to say it’s doxxing. That way, she does not have to actually provide proof of the event.
“She’s being considerate after all.
“Liana Kerzner also completely rewrites the motivations because she claims that the reason Asher quote “doxxed” Naomi was because Naomi agreed with Liana that people shouldn’t be doxed except that Asher’s motivations were in the very same screenshot and in his tweets where he essentially confronted Naomi saying, “You said this about my identity while also flattering your identity. This is hypocrisy.”
“Notice that Liana completely leaves all of that out and she inserts her own completely made-up interpretation of events that don’t hold up once you look at the evidence. And that’s because Naomi Paul Poru doesn’t matter as a person, not to Liana Kerzner.
“Naomi Paul Poru only matters as an identity that Liana Kerzner can wield as a sword and shield in order to hide herself from the accountability of her own words and actions. And a surprising number of people in Kerzner’s servers and community do the exact same thing.
“I want you to look at what Asher said and what he was actually targeting and addressing his beef with Naomi. And I need to ask you, was that actually transphobia or was it about someone being reasonably upset that a third party shat on his identity and this person confronted that third party and took them to task?
“And I think it’s very telling that Naomi Paul Poru and Liana Kerzner pulled out the transphobia card instead of actually addressing the problem, which is what Liana Kerzner does all of the time.” ~ Liana Kerzner Hospitalized My Husband]
I said what I wanted to say on a public forum after you disengaged, not expecting you to come back.
I was suddenly immoral (according to Liana) when *you* decided to come back claiming I crossed a boundary. It was *you’re* boundary, something I repeated. *I’m not responsible for the enforcement of anyone’s boundaries.*
I’m really surprised you don’t seem to know this.
Stating things like I’m “splitting,” or that I took “offense,” or that I was claiming you were manipulative for “disengaging,” is *very* controlling and purposeful language. You know none of these things.
I did not take offense at you disengaging. I did not claim that you disengaging, or saying I was “gish galloping,” was manipulative.
It’s in the Tweets exactly where I said it started: “how does this relate…”
And, finally, I wasn’t splitting. But a therapist said I was!
That’s it. Take that however you want. I don’t care how many words it is, or anything like that.
I don’t care about your past.
I don’t care about your trolls (other than I got dragged into the muck by association as well as our mutual friend).
I don’t care about you being furry, polyamorous, transgender, or anything. I am also weird!
I don’t care about any narrative or ‘docs’ (haven’t even seen them).
All I care about is the ideas you talk about and the “shit” you say, if even that.
I mean, how many people are supposed to blocked or banned from queer, gay, furry, niche, or whatever other fandom spaces for their opinions?
[ED August 10, 2026: The following is in reply to Giancarlo Vanzzini, whom I was *never* friendly with, where he asked ‘What is splitting?’]
“Splitting,” otherwise known as black-and-white thinking, thinking in extremes, and more specifically in the Borderline sense, an idealization or devaluation of another person or situation rather than seeing the nuances or the gradient “shades of gray.”
It’s an emotional and often unbalanced response that can happen in seconds in Borderlines which characterizes it as irrational and maladaptive. Devaluation will often involve lashing out in various ways, even if it’s as mild as “shit talking” about someone.
If I was splitting, it would taint everything I was saying to Poppy as irrational extreme nonsense, which it wasn’t.
Why would I offer to have her explain her position if she was all “bad”?
She’s not. No one is.
[ED August 10, 2026: Tangential to this statement, there is a philosophical stance that has come up again and again as part of the Lianaganda machine: that of “good people,” and “bad people.” I still firmly believe there are no “bad people” anymore than there are “good people.” This isn’t a denial of moral value. I’ll sum up the stance as being one of a rejection of inherent value/worth. The notion that I have adopted this stance as a way to absolve me of something (which, I do not require for myself), a notion that has possibly been implied by Liana’s repeated rebuttal that there are, indeed, “bad people,” is blown away by statements like the above. No one is “all bad,” because no one is inherently “bad” no matter how many “bad” things they do. This thread was written on October 26, 2024, 1 year 9 months and 15 days ago, and the stance hasn’t changed. It wasn’t different before that date, and it’s not going to be different after today. Liana Kerzner has gone to great lengths over the last 19 months to suggest that I’m unstable, and thus dangerous, in some way. I have consistently argued that the only ‘instability’ present is when I choose to do things that the very normative Liana Kerzner wouldn’t do herself. That’s not instability. That’s just me not being Liana Kerzner. In Borderline Personality Disorder, ‘instability’ often manifests in two ways: mood instability, and in an unstable identity. If opinions/beliefs are to be considered part of one’s identity, such as, say, Liana Kerzner being a deontologist, then it has been 1 year 9 months and 15 days of stable belief. The truth is, this has been a highly stable belief of mine for 35+ years. The only instability in this situation has been the Lianaganda put out. For example, a “triggered trauma response” very slowly transformed into controlled anger and indignation over several months, something I had suspected it always was, and something which my husband pointed out much to the righteous zealous inclusion of Liana Kerzner.]
I don’t have a personal agenda “against” Poppy. I am interested in discussing ideas.
“This led to repeated missed deadlines, a great deal of distraction, and crossed moral boundaries. … The delays were due to mental health issues in the home and culminated in the team member’s spouse taking a very public shot on Twitter at a transwoman they knew was being harassed by Kiwi Farms, using a narrative they knew was being circulated on the Farms and that perpetuated both transphobia and mental health stigma. I will not repeat the statement because I’m not looking for a debate on whether I’m in the right in my opinions here. [ED August 10, 2026: It was me using the word “manipulative,” to describe Jessica’s clearly manipulative behavior, in grave wordy detail. That’s what she won’t repeat here.] To be clear, criticism is part of being on social media, but these comments went, I believe, over the criticism line. Even if you don’t like someone, doing or saying things that could reasonably create a more dangerous situation because the person is already near the end of their rope is not something I can defend. Yes, the person who did it had their reasons. I just don’t think they were terribly good ones considering all the factors. I insisted that this person commit to a mutually agreed upon concrete plan going forward to address their unacceptable lack of impulse control and other issues that led to this reckless and potentially dangerous behavior so something like this never happened again.
“This person would not comply with this process.
[ED August 10, 2026:
This is an undeniable falsehood.
There is no indication in the *published* exchange, which, this is partly why, that I refused to comply. In fact, I tried to “comply” or *start* “complying” multiple times. If Liana determined I wouldn’t comply for themselves, that’s on them, not me. This is an outright lie.
Not only that, but I was never under any impression that I had agreed to any kind of “tone policing” or that I was the face of any sort of project, directly or indirectly, and you’d think I would be given that Liana and I discussed the very situation she brought up later (the ‘pedophile’ post) for four months… but we ever discussed any thing like this. Not once.
And that’s because, I can say with confidence, Liana Kerzner knew I would never agree to that “in a million years.”
I never consented to nor was even aware of any sort of tone or representation.
I never consented to any kind of “transparency” into my private life, and neither did Maus.
I was never informed this information would be in this video, neither as a check-in or as a promise/threat I didn’t believe.
I was shocked to see this video and my situation framed this way.
This is the Liana Kerzner I know. The one that doesn’t give a shit about you, your rights, your boundaries, or your consent as long as you’re mentally ill, disabled, or at-risk and in her way.]
“The spouse, perhaps understandably, sided with them. Not understandably, the team member accused me of deliberate cruelty. I assure you that this claim is false. While at times I deliberately irritate people, it’s not in my nature to do things I believe will hurt them.”
[ED August 10, 2026: Or, as Liana Kerzner themselves might put it, “blah blah blah trust me bro”]
I have never campaigned against anyone.
If you can’t deal with opposing opinions, maybe you shouldn’t be in the business of opinions. Criticism isn’t harassment. Neither transgenderism, identity, reputation, nor mental health conditions were used as counterarguments.
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My *personal* suspicions, myself, are that she won’t repeat the statement in order to not specify which one it was and make it sound incredibly horrible. Well, judge for yourself.
Here is an example, in my opinion, of what Liana means when she speaks about perpetuating mental health stigma. Observe how she portrays a one-sided version of events after stating she wouldn’t say what happened that favors her as a victim of (my imposed) circumstances (my perceived mental illness).
Here is my initial response, which Liana has, as far as I know, not addressed:
The biggest minor part of this is that contrary to what she says, I actively tried to “comply” with the proposed process. The larger point is that she used my perceived (incorrectly) mental illness and health as a scapegoat for the cancellation of her project while betraying my husband’s confidence.
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"text": "I do not invade people's private spaces. I do not incite mobs. I do not make friends fall in line. I do not spread rumors. I do not interact positively with obvious trolls, nor participate in their campaigns. I do not go on vendettas or participate in them. SImply put, I do not harass people."
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"text": "In review, I must note something here. Poppy is a self-expressed trans individual. \"Man\" was not meant to be a transphobic expression. I have only known Poppy as the woman she is and don't care otherwise. \"Man.\" was meant as an interjection, like \"Man, anyone can do it!\" or \"Man, that's bad.\" ..."
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"text": "I understand if that (the \"Man.\" or \"Man!\" interjection) was lost, and I could've possibly expressed myself better, but it wasn't a thought that crossed my mind since Poppy is nothing but a woman in my eyes. It didn't even cross my mind."
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"text": "The result: Poppy, a licensed therapist, put me on display as a \"splitting\" borderline to her followers to, in my opinion, and interpretation, delegitimize my argument and opinion (in her presumed expert opinion) as quickly as possible and make sure everyone saw how \"abhorrent\" I was being."
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"text": "I was then told by a mutual friend (to whom both of us ran): \"It's not delegitimizing when you actually ARE going too far. 'Manipulative' is ... thrown at BPD people unfairly and you of all people know that. So you're in pot calling the kettle black territory here. That doesn't mean you're wrong.\""
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"text": "This mutual friend also convinced Poppy to remove the last post, but, well, you can see it above. That was very considerate, and I felt better about being dismissed twice in rapid succession, once by a close friend whose feelings I had hurt. So, I apologized to this friend. It did not go well."
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"text": "This is the end of my TED talk. I encourage you to draw your own conclusions, because you will, and there's nothing I would ever want to do to stop that. Thank you."
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"text": "I'd like to note, and \"you\" here is Poppy:\n\n1) suggesting I'm \"berating\" you and stating that you're \"uncomfortable\" was a \"boundary\" you *made* (where?) that I *crossed* can be interpreted as you behaving like a victim. I have clearly \"wronged\" you by crossing a boundary. …"
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"text": "This action resonates further, finding a place in the moral condemnation expressed by Liana in her video about the cancellation of Song of Sparklemuffin, which has nothing to do with me or you. It is unnecessary to state you are a victim to be considered a victim. Being a victim is …"
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"text": "the result of an action and also in responsive behavior. It is not something you can deny when you're acting like one. It doesn't have to be said.\n\n2) I made the case for manipulativeness by pointing out where in your short responses my \"BPD\" (as you seem to enjoy anthropomorphizing it, I was …"
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"text": "trying to match) was picking up on rhetorical techniques to try to outmaneuver what I was saying in response to what I was saying. Not having clear definitions, clear points, and clear arguments on purpose is manipulation. When they're always changing or unsteady, especially in response to …"
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"text": "challenges that make them look bad, it's manipulative. I know how to spot this easily. On top of that, though, the fact you \"made a boundary\" ('uncomfortable,' I've gathered, is code for \"boundary\") and then immediately chastised me for \"crossing\" it (it's *your* boundary, but *you* came back) on …"
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"text": "a public forum indicates the boundary was supposed to silence me. I was supposed to be polite and shut up. And when I didn't *you came back* to declare I crossed a boundary and was berating you, turning you into a victim. This is also a form of manipulation. Boundaries are meant to protect …"
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"text": "people from abusers by helping them reclaim their sense of responsibility and self from the abusers who have taken it or shoved themselves into it. I'm pretty sure of this, as it's been hammered into me repeatedly for the last 23 years. You stated you were uncomfortable. I *expected* you to …"
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"text": "leave the conversation. I had no expectation that you'd come back, but I expressed what I wanted to say anyway, on a public forum. You 'punished' me for *you* coming back. Just block me (as you've done). When I expressed that I don't have to buy into this (as Liana has expressed recently) you …"
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"text": "took that as a failure and claimed I was essentially acting insane at you (the victim) so that nobody would take me seriously.\n\n3) This interaction led Liana to accuse *me* of perpetuating mental health stigma. Let that sink in. Even now, I wonder why I was accused of this, but …"
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"text": "I think I have an idea.\n\n4) I talked about you 'berating' people. I meant your YouTube channel, your \"disk horse,\" your public persona, your opinions, and such. Nothing in your personal life. I don't know your personal life. And you do, because how could your videos concerning 'drama,' …"
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"text": "for example, such as your own in regards to your actions and other people criticizing you (which I am not interested in), not possibly be interpreted this way? You berate people with weird memes for political reasons all the time!\n\n5) I did not take offense at you disengaging. I took offense at …"
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"text": "your manipulative use of language, and your manipulative use of boundaries. I said what I wanted to say on a public forum after you disengaged, not expecting you to come back. I was suddenly immoral (according to Liana) when *you* decided to come back claiming I crossed a boundary. It was …"
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"text": "*you're* boundary, something I repeated. *I'm not responsible for the enforcement of anyone's boundaries.* I'm really surprised you don't seem to know this.\n\n6) Stating things like I'm \"splitting,\" or that I took \"offense,\" or that I was claiming you were manipulative for \"disengaging,\" is …"
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"text": "*very* controlling and purposeful language. You know none of these things. I did not take offense at you disengaging. I did not claim that you disengaging, or saying I was \"gish galloping,\" was manipulative. It's in the Tweets exactly where I said it started: \"how does this relate...\" …"
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"text": "And, finally, I wasn't splitting. But a therapist said I was!\n\nThat's it. Take that however you want. I don't care how many words it is, or anything like that. I don't care about your past. I don't care about your trolls (other than I got dragged into the muck by association …"
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"text": "as well as our mutual friend). I don't care about you being furry, polyamorous, transgender, or anything. I am also weird! I don't care about any narrative or 'docs' (haven't even seen them). All I care about is the ideas you talk about and the \"shit\" you say, if even that."
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"text": "I mean, how many people are supposed to blocked or banned from queer, gay, furry, niche, or whatever other fandom spaces for their opinions?"
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"text": "“Splitting,” otherwise known as black-and-white thinking, thinking in extremes, and more specifically in the Borderline sense, an idealization or devaluation of another person or situation rather than seeing the nuances or the gradient “shades of gray.”\n\nLiana and Poppy discuss it here:"
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"text": "It’s an emotional and often unbalanced response that can happen in seconds in Borderlines which characterizes it as irrational and maladaptive. Devaluation will often involve lashing out in various ways, even if it’s as mild as “shit talking” about someone.\n\nThis video, at 1:40, mentions it too:"
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"text": "If I was splitting, it would taint everything I was saying to Poppy as irrational extreme nonsense, which it wasn’t. Why would I offer to have her explain her position if she was all “bad”? She’s not. No one is. I don’t have a personal agenda “against” Poppy. I am interested in discussing ideas."
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"text": "I quote @redlianak.bsky.social \"This led to repeated missed deadlines, a great deal of distraction, and crossed moral boundaries. … The delays were due to mental health issues in the home and culminated in the team member’s spouse taking a very public shot on Twitter at a transwoman they knew was …"
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"text": "being harassed by KiwiFarms, using a narrative they knew was being circulated on the Farms and that perpetuated both transphobia and mental health stigma. I will not repeat the statement because I'm not looking for a debate on whether I'm in the right in my opinions here. To be clear, criticism is …"
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"text": "part of being on social media, but these comments went, I believe, over the criticism line. Even if you don't like someone, doing or saying things that could reasonably create a more dangerous situation because the person is already near the end of their rope is not something I can defend. …"
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"text": "Yes, the person who did it had their reasons. I just don't think they were terribly good ones considering all the factors. I insisted that this person commit to a mutually agreed upon concrete plan going forward to address their unacceptable lack of impulse control and other issues that led to …"
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"text": "this reckless and potentially dangerous behavior so something like this never happened again.\n\nThis person would not comply with this process.\n\nThe spouse, perhaps understandably, sided with them. Not understandably, the team member accused me of deliberate cruelty. …"
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"text": "I assure you that this claim is false. While at times I deliberately irritate people, it's not in my nature to do things I believe will hurt them.\""
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"text": "My *personal* suspicions, myself, are that she won't repeat the statement in order to not specify which one it was and make it sound incredibly horrible. Well, judge for yourself."
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"text": "Here is an example, in my opinion, of what Liana means when she speaks about perpetuating mental health stigma. Observe how she portrays a one-sided version of events after stating she wouldn't say what happened that favors her as a victim of (my imposed) circumstances (my perceived mental illness)."
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"text": "Here is my initial response, which Liana has, as far as I know, not addressed:"
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"text": "The biggest minor part of this is that contrary to what she says, I actively tried to \"comply\" with the proposed process. The larger point is that she used my perceived (incorrectly) mental illness and health as a scapegoat for the cancellation of her project while betraying my husband's confidence."
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