Bluesky: When Poppy told me I was splitting, and to stop doing that, I think she forgot that I’m…

When Poppy told me I was splitting, and to stop doing that, I think she forgot that I’m not one of her patients. She can’t just wave her authoritative hand and summon shame and self-doubt within me with her Masters in #Counseling specializing in personality disorders. Thank Lucifur for that!

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When Poppy told me I was splitting, and to stop doing that, I think she forgot that I'm not one of her patients. She can't just wave her authoritative hand and summon shame and self-doubt within me with her Masters in #Counseling specializing in personality disorders.

Thank Lucifur for that!

2025-05-29 21:00:54.545 / 3lqdmfytbnf2h
Zena & Poppy - On Hiatus Due To Several Factors @ZenaAndPoppy

I never once claimed I was a victim. I claimed that excessively posting makes it impossible to respond to every point. This is called a gish gallop. There is nothing manipulative about calling a spade a spade or choosing to disengage from a conversation. You are splitting. Stop.

HERE BITCH TAKE THIS

SINCE YOU WANNA PROJECT Replying to @asherwolfstein @ZenaAndPoppy and @JessPected all, and I've challenged the questionable parts. Now you're suddenly a victim. Nice try. This was uncomfortable for me the second you said, 'how does this relate to what I said?' and I should've known then. My BPD was right, which is sad. You are very manipulative, and it shows / 2:25 PM - Sep 9, 2024 - 2 Views

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2025-05-29 21:03:49.077 / 3lqdml7bk352h
I didn't say victim! You are splitting! STOP! (Not a diagnosis, I don't do that, I just don't)
I didn't say victim! You are splitting! STOP! (Not a diagnosis, I don't do that, I just don't)

Same thing in this video. I think Liana forgot she couldn't wield the power of her peer counseling position against me to evoke shame and fear within me because I was only her friend, I was never a client.

And now I'm not even her friend. Because it didn't work. And she didn't like that.

2025-05-29 21:23:05.406 / 3lqdnnnzvmf2h

Most of Liana's 'friends' in this realm of things are or have been also her clients in some way. And many of them are neurodivergent and otherwise vulnerable, which is a weird ratio for a 'life coach,' role. But it makes sense given the marketing on her website nottherapyshow.com

2025-05-29 21:23:05.407 / 3lqdnnoafmn2h
It's not therapy
It's not therapy

Something I've highlighted before (no big sooprize). Here's a screenshot.

2025-05-29 21:23:05.408 / 3lqdnnpfl352h
* What is It's Not Therapy ? It's Not Therapy is just what it sounds like - emotional health tools and advice from people who have been through the mental health system. Basically, if therapy is medicine, It's Not Therapy is emotional nutrition. It's Not Therapy is ideal for those who have plateaued in therapy, or who had bad experiences with therapy. It is not a substitute for therapy, nor is it "better" than traditional methods. It's a response to the fact that different things work for different people. You may find benefits here if you: • can't afford conventional therapy • don't have access to the right kind of therapy • have trouble understanding the tools you're getting in therapy • have a specific problem that needs a solution • are stuck, or plateaued, in your healing • feel punished or too normalized in therapy • find the therapy process too slow, vague, or confusing • want additional supports between therapy sessions • want to connect with other people who have been through what you re going through. • afraid to go to therapy, not sure it's right for you, or don't know which kind of therapy to try.

It's something Song talked about her in her video. Liana took up a bunch of different roles, and then, with that menagerie proceeded to push to get her way.

2025-05-29 21:23:05.409 / 3lqdnnql4an2h

Maus encouraged me once to be Liana's client. But I have a simple rule: you don't do any kind of therapy whatsoever (even counseling) with friends. Nope. Never.

2025-05-29 21:23:05.410 / 3lqdnnql57v2h

Liana didn't pay attention to that (or even know about it, I don't know) and decided that she was going to elevate herself from my friend, to my peer counselor, and then, even, to my moral teacher.

2025-05-29 21:23:05.411 / 3lqdnnql57w2h

She failed in doing so, because it's highly manipulative and inappropriate.

2025-05-29 21:23:05.412 / 3lqdnnql57x2h

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