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Source: at://did:plc:v2j2g5pdghrwazhbw6gvxtdp/app.bsky.feed.post/3lfpr63hamc2l [empty post text] 2025-01-14 17:20:46.516 / 3lfpr63hamc2l It’s like there’s a template or something. A little cookie cutter factory somewhere stamping them out. I could very well create an AI persona of it. She even has red hair. Going into 2025 can we dispense with combining pop psychology and gaming channels please? 2025-01-14…

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2025-01-14 17:20:46.516 / 3lfpr63hamc2l
tilaaurora 2h Hey babes. You're falling for hate bait again. If a post makes you angry, then it's supposed to do that. It's not someone being unaware of a bad take, it's someone preying on your outburst for engagement. Block and scroll past. 104 Q 16 ( 10 asherwolfstein 12m This is terrible, quite dismissive judgmental advice that ultimately serves to lessen the burden on terrible people who behave negatively and in harmful ways and enlarge the scope of expectations for victims, or even the good and decent. Please do not take this advice to heart and silence yourself so you can protect your peace and be a good person in the eyes of someone like this. Your voice and judgment matter. asherwolfstein 8m We have carefully constructed a social system of pseudo-ethics for the past several centuries based around politeness and positivity that only serves to protect and benefit those who continue to engage in horrible behavior. It's curated and crafted to appear to be for all of ours benefit on an individual level, a collectivized inner peace of sorts, but all it does is silence, cover up, and perpetuate further abuse because no one does anything significant about it.
asherwolfstein 12m This is terrible, quite dismissive judgmental advice that ultimately serves to lessen the burden on terrible people who behave negatively and in harmful ways and enlarge the scope of expectations for victims, or even the good and decent. Please do not take this advice to heart and silence yourself so you can protect your peace and be a good person in the eyes of someone like this. Your voice and judgment matter. ... asherwolfstein 8m • •• We have carefully constructed a social system of pseudo-ethics for the past several centuries based around politeness and positivity that only serves to protect and benefit those who continue to engage in horrible behavior. It's curated and crafted to appear to be for all of ours benefit on an individual level, a collectivized inner peace of sorts, but all it does is silence, cover up, and perpetuate further abuse because no one does anything significant about it. Q 11 () asherwolfstein 3m I suggest we stop giving credence to this kind of underhanded social and mental advice that never feels quite right, even opposite of what would be authentic, and instead focus on the idea that evil only exists insofar as the good lets it. That would actually bring about the reality all this backwards advice is promising, but it requires one to exercise your own judgment and not silence yourself for propriety.

It’s like there’s a template or something. A little cookie cutter factory somewhere stamping them out. I could very well create an AI persona of it. She even has red hair. Going into 2025 can we dispense with combining pop psychology and gaming channels please?

2025-01-14 17:55:38.462 / 3lfpt4gi7qk2l
Tiia Aurora tilaaurora Penfluencer and Inksimp Art and Poetry Philomath Probably maybe not Finnish. more 4,651 followers • arkmag.rocks Follow Mention Threads Replies Reposts + Pinned tiiaaurora 12/14/23 Hello, I am Tila! I am a video creator and livestreamer and writer for video game content (mainly @survivetheark) My content is mostly educational and in English and German. Aside from my day job, I am neurodivergent and super interested in anything creative. arkmag.rocks (articles) twitch.tv/TilaA... (live) youtube.com/@tila... (ENG) youtube.com/@tila (DE)
asherwolfstein 33m I suggest we stop giving credence to this kind of underhanded social and mental advice that never feels quite right, even opposite of what would be authentic, and instead focus on the idea that evil only exists insofar as the good lets it. That would actually bring about the reality all this backwards advice is promising, but it requires one to exercise your own judgment and not silence yourself for propriety. tiiaaurora 25m • • • I can tell you already went very far down the rabbit hole and I don't blame you for that. It's our evolution to look out for threats and react accordingly. But a make up influencer being upset that her engagement ring was not expensive enough is not threatening the world and you being angry about it isnt saving it. It's just distracting you from actual issues. And that's what hate bait is. Inflating numbers. Replies asherwolfstein 21m ... See? More dismissiveness. I've never reacted or posted about a make up influencer and her upsets about engagement rings. I didn't go down a rabbit hole, nor would even need to be blamed. This is my conclusion after decades of observing this. I'm not angry about that made up scenario nor am I saving the world, nor am I distracted from "actual" issues (this is an actual issue I'm talking about by the way). This is an example of everything I just said. I will not be ashamed at your request.
asherwolfstein 21m See? More dismissiveness. l've never reacted or posted about a make up influencer and her upsets about engagement rings. I didn't go down a rabbit hole, nor would even need to be blamed. This is my conclusion after decades of observing this. I'm not angry about that made up scenario nor am I saving the world, nor am I distracted from "actual" issues (this is an actual issue I'm talking about by the way). This is an example of everything I just said. I will not be ashamed at your request. 2 tiiaaurora 20m I think you simply didn't understand the term hate bait. Which is fine. :) • • • asherwolfstein 17m No, I understand it just fine. More dismissiveness. People use language in all sorts of ways. One person's big issue is another person's hate bait, especially when it's political or abusive. Sorry I can't read your mind. You never specified a makeup influencer or engagement ring in your original post, it was vague. Your lack of clarity is not my misunderstanding.
a makeup influencer or engagement ring in your original post, it was vague. Your lack of clarity is not my misunderstanding. tilaaurora 16m This is why I said I can see you being down the rabbithole. One of the symptoms is assuming the worst, assuming hostility and being upset before being informed. It's a typical reaction social media has trained us to master. And it's fine, I get it. But it's not healthy. Q1 asherwolfstein 12m • •• Informed of what? What am I uninformed about? What did I get wrong? You don't get it. This has been how I've communicated way before social media existed. Ask anyone who knows me. You are assuming the worst and being hostile (mostly dismissive) by deciding I've gone down a rabbit hole and been trained by social media to be unhealthy. 2 asherwolfstein 9m It's very possible to be dismissive without intending to be dismissive. Entire books and conversational frameworks have been written about it and how to minimize it. In every reply you've attempted, knowingly or not, to reframe what l've said as hostile, uninformed, compulsive, crazy even (rabbit hole and unhealthy, when it is none of those things.

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2025-01-14 17:55:38.463 / 3lfpt4jdho22l
You don't get it. This has been how I've communicated way before social media existed. Ask anyone who knows me. You are assuming the worst and being hostile (mostly dismissive) by deciding I've gone down a rabbit hole and been trained by social media to be unhealthy. 2 tilaaurora 10m • • • It's okay :D Maybe it's for your best if I don't engage further in your anger. But I hope you find the time today to enjoy something wholeheartly and make a positive memory you can look back on in a few years. Cause those are the things that matter in the end. Have a wonderful rest of your day! 1 Replies asherwolfstein 7m I'm not angry. Again, dismissiveness. You also didn't answer any of my questions in any real dialogue. You're also implying that nothing I said mattered because it wasn't positive. I think this was quite positive, and I will remember it in a few years. Your toxic positivity is rancid. asherwolfstein 5m Also, you clearly don't have any idea what's for "my best." That is the height of positivity arrogance. You're not some guru dispensing wisdom.

And no, I have zero need to not do this or mitigate my online postings as a sign of not being impulsive. I’m not being impulsive. That was a former clueless friend’s interpretation of what I was and am continuing to do. …

2025-01-14 18:05:43.805 / 3lfptohro522l

I have struggled with impulsivity, even when I knew her, but not in the way she has decided to diagnose me as a respected peer counselor. I’ve always had conversations like this, and not engaging in them is *not* a sign of disorder. Not everyone who gives advice is worth listening to. …

2025-01-14 18:05:43.806 / 3lfptoi53ek2l

What was impulsive was putting myself into situations that would have a clear emotional outcome, or conversing in a way that would open me up to being shat on by others in such a way as to cause me to become unbalanced. I told her I was avoiding doing that and instead …

2025-01-14 18:05:43.807 / 3lfptoi55d22l

wanted to engage in more proper discussion. *I never said I’d stop engaging in discussion. * This is another one of Mrs. Kerzner’s terrible stories and misinterpretations of what I said. I’ve always proudly been like this, there’s nothing wrong with it, and I will continue to be like this.

2025-01-14 18:05:43.808 / 3lfptoi57bk2l

Liana Kerzner @redlianak.bsky.social liked it, engaged in it, encouraged it, and everything else right up until I upset a potential source of clients: @ladydiabolique.bsky.social with exactly the same rhetoric. Poppy engages in discourse, but in even worse and more crude fashion, but all good!

2025-01-14 18:11:12.740 / 3lfptybi3ms2l

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