Bluesky: So when you ask not to be associated in a way you’ve made up, I’m supposed to bend over…

So when you ask not to be associated in a way you’ve made up, I’m supposed to bend over backwards to accommodate. When I ask you not to turn this into a pissing (or dick measuring) contest (it’s in the screenshot) you just can’t stop yourself.

Source: at://did:plc:v2j2g5pdghrwazhbw6gvxtdp/app.bsky.feed.post/3llc25ostbs24

So when you ask not to be associated in a way you’ve made up, I’m supposed to bend over backwards to accommodate. When I ask you not to turn this into a pissing (or dick measuring) contest (it’s in the screenshot) you just can’t stop yourself.

2025-03-26 14:55:30.368 / 3llc25ostbs24
Saige youtube.com/@VividFae @vividfa... • 4h
I think when you reach the point of dick measuring how many times you've been in the mental hospital you might want to consider upping that number one more time voluntarily
nospitazea I umes (prease, piease aon t
turn this into a pissing contest too) my laymen's patient opinion and unsought advice is this:
March 26, 2025 at 2:20 AM
Asher Wolfstein @asher.wolfste.in you clearly have a deep running problem and have learned and adapted some extremely maladaptive coping behaviors and defenses that your current girlfriend is only encouraging. This whole approach was batshit insane, even on my terms. ...
口1
...
Asher Wolfstein @asher.wolfste.in
It was a clusterfuck of total insanity and a frightening way to assert yourself in complaint that accomplished the opposite of what you wanted. Total opposite.
1
...
Asher Wolfstein @asher.wolfste.in
And before that gets jumped on, no, that doesn't mean I should've known and treated you differently. Why? Who's done that for me here in *my* entire situation?
And who should?
I respect you enough to treat you like any
Asher Wolfstein @asher.wolfste.in you clearly have a deep running problem and have learned and adapted some extremely maladaptive coping behaviors and defenses that your current girlfriend is only encouraging. This whole approach was batshit insane, even on my terms....
1
...
Asher Wolfstein @asher.wolfste.in
It was a clusterfuck of total insanity and a frightening way to assert yourself in complaint that accomplished the opposite of what you wanted. Total opposite.
■1
...
Asher Wolfstein @asher.wolfste.in
And before that gets jumped on, no, that doesn't mean I should've known and treated you differently. Why? Who's done that for me here in *my* entire situation?
And who should?
I respect you enough to treat you like any other sane person who'd say something like this. I know it's hard.
.. •
3h
3h
3h
Asher Wolfstein @asher.wolfste.in
But that *is* respect. That is a kindnes k
3h
ALT
+
1|
Saige | youtube.com/@VividFae @vividfa... • 4h
Don't forget to take your abilify bbs

Don’t take my advice, I don’t care. Your life isn’t my problem. I was being kind and speaking from my experience. I started counting because the number was just getting so high.

2025-03-26 14:55:30.369 / 3llc25qkw7c24

I’ve met plenty of people who were just as self-important and ‘special’ as you in all of those, and some would probably say that about me at some point, and it didn’t serve a single one of them (or me).

2025-03-26 14:55:30.370 / 3llc25qkx6k24

But, hey, what you’re doing (making shit up about me to turn yourself into a needless victim as encouraged and reinforced by your toxic af girlfriend) seems to be making you happy.

2025-03-26 14:55:30.371 / 3llc25qkz5224

This was never, ever, a dick measuring contest until *you* came along and made it one for yourself because I wasn’t centering you, for some unreasonable reason, in my life.

2025-03-26 14:55:30.372 / 3llc25ql33k24

I have no interest in comparing my situation to anyone’s in any quantitative manner as less or more because I’m a mature adult who knows that’s pointless and harmful. I can’t say the same about you or your behavior last night.

2025-03-26 14:55:30.373 / 3llc25ql42s24

And… I actually can’t take Abilify due to akathisia, but oh do tell me how much you just *know* about my situation and suffering and how it’s pretty much nothing compared to yours because *checks notes* I’m just a side character and nobody knows who I am.

2025-03-26 14:55:30.374 / 3llc25ql5zc24

Get a grip. You’re not special. You’re actually pretty average in all this. Grow up. And most of all leave me alone as you seem to want me to do with you. Please continue to block me.

2025-03-26 14:55:30.375 / 3llc25ql6yk24

You (or your girlfriend) want to complain about pettiness? What you’re doing here is the definition of petty (you address nothing else I said) bordering on stigmatizing. Are you literally telling me to check myself back in peak Kiwi-Farmer-troll fashion? That’s what you sound like here ffs.

2025-03-26 14:55:30.376 / 3llc25ql7xs24

And bbs? Is that me going back to in-patient again involuntarily? Or is that you coming back to bludgeon me down with the blunt instrument that is your trauma? Please stop “taking your mental health struggles” out on me, thanks.

2025-03-26 14:59:08.193 / 3llc2e6jxc22g

In case you missed it, here’s a recap of you and your girlfriend last night:

2025-03-26 15:03:41.448 / 3llc2md4zus24

ATProto root record: 3llc25ostbs24