Bluesky: Once again @hellscapewanderer.bsky.social “engages” with us despite, via @vividfaegarde…

Once again @hellscapewanderer.bsky.social “engages” with us despite, via @vividfaegarden.com’s insistence in her vaguely legal threat, making it “crystal fucking clear” that none of them want to have anything to do. She was “*DEADLY*serious.” We’ve never asked them to leave us alone.

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Once again @hellscapewanderer.bsky.social “engages” with us despite, via @vividfaegarden.com’s insistence in her vaguely legal threat, making it “crystal fucking clear” that none of them want to have anything to do. She was “*DEADLY*serious.” We’ve never asked them to leave us alone.

2025-03-31 16:11:29.946 / 3lloqq6hz2k2w
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Abusers always get erratic and angry when you don't just shut up and take it. They hate it when you stand your ground and call them out. They're cruel and they rewrite context to serve their means. They decide the truth and bend reality to fit that story, fuck the truth.
Asher and Maus are abusers
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@hellscapewanderer.bs... • 4h
1 *know* that they are going to try to make another diatribe about how I'm stifling their free speech and shouldn't be on a public platform if I don't want to be attacked for asking them to leave my girlfriend and I alone, but I'm not going to just take it. I'm done.
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@hellscapewanderer.bs... • 4h
I've tried to give Asher and Maus the chance to leave us alone. They have repeatedly refused.
They have constantly manipulated the situation. They have grievances. I don't care.
They can have them all they want. Leave us out of it. That's it.
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@hellscapewanderer.bs... • 4h
I *know* that they are going to try to make another diatribe about how I'm stifling their free speech and shouldn't be on a public platform if I don't want to be attacked for asking them to leave my girlfriend and I alone, but I'm not going to just take it. I'm done.
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@hellscapewanderer.bs... • 4h
I've tried to give Asher and Maus the chance to leave us alone. They have repeatedly refused.
They have constantly manipulated the situation. They have grievances. I don't care.
They can have them all they want. Leave us out of it. That's it.
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@hellscapewanderer.bs... • 4h
But they refuse because they are abusers who thrive on attention. Yes I've commented on the situation in broad terms because I believe in using my platform, as minor as it is,
responsibly. I don't direct my followers against smaller accounts. However abuse and harrassment should be reported.

The first sentence of her report summarizes the whole situation.

I guess 4 Skeets is the limit before it becomes a manic and erratic diatribe?

2025-03-31 16:11:29.947 / 3lloqqa54bk2w

I haven’t done a single thing she describes. If I have, she’s free to point out where instead of just throw accusations out there and not back it up. But then she might risk appearing like me.

2025-03-31 16:11:29.948 / 3lloqqa55as2w

Since she doesn’t care about any grievance with anyone I might have, which was obvious from the beginning when she belittled everything I said, then this is all I have to say: I have acted the opposite of erratic, I just haven’t acted the way she likes. I’m actually glad they “stood their ground.”

2025-03-31 16:11:29.949 / 3lloqqa577c2w

I haven’t rewritten a single context that I’m aware of, or erased any of it either. I have decided what I believe to be true, but to make that decision I observe reality rather than bend it. I’ve repeatedly expressed great appreciation for the truth.

2025-03-31 16:11:29.950 / 3lloqqa5b5s2w

Neither of us have made the specific argument over our actions about free speech, and on that one I will say that once again @vividfargarden.com and @hellscapewanderer.bsky.social brought that up first and then decided that was our argument for us, again, as they do.

2025-03-31 16:11:29.951 / 3lloqqa5e3k2w

In my terms I’ve left them alone, but not theirs, which requires never mentioning them ever again or what they did or said to me. I’ve made no attack, which, to me, is lying, misrepresenting, skewing, stigmatizing, and vitriolic inflammatory language, …

2025-03-31 16:11:29.952 / 3lloqqapi622w

but to them it’s describing in great detail exactly what they did which hurts their feelings. Over the last six months it’s become very clear to me, by everyone’s actions, why my innocent question was so dangerous to everyone involved. I’m very glad I asked.

2025-03-31 16:11:29.953 / 3lloqqapk4k2w

I have not manipulated a single thing in my estimation. I don’t require permission to have grievances *with her,* which I’m apparently supposed to leave her out of. I don’t thrive on attention, I don’t have an audience and very little if any attention on me.

Where is it?

2025-03-31 16:11:29.954 / 3lloqqapm322w

She can comment on me, because it’s her, which renders it responsible. But I cannot comment on her, because I’m me, which makes it irresponsible.

2025-03-31 16:11:29.955 / 3lloqqapnzk2w

I’ve actively encouraged everyone to make all the reports they feel they need to make to whoever they need to make it to, so I’m glad she’s finally taking my advice.

What *I’m* sure about is that she’ll read all of this, despite wanting nothing to do with me, and then respond indirectly …

2025-03-31 16:11:29.956 / 3lloqqappy22w

deciding everything about me for me, shame me some more with some choice adjectives, omit important details, conflate different conversations, try to come up with another random angle based off assumptions,

2025-03-31 16:11:29.957 / 3lloqqaprwk2w

and paint herself as an undeserving victim of the consequences of engaging with me and this situation: I talk about them and my grievances *with them.*

2025-03-31 16:11:29.958 / 3lloqqaptv22w

*to do *with me.* I don't know how that happened, I even double-checked it.

2025-03-31 21:18:08.347 / 3llpbuik4wk2n

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