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Oh no… is "therapy speak" being used to distract from your horrible actions @vividfaegarden.com? Was it too much of a distraction from your sexism and racism, and your girlfriend @hellscapewanderer.bsky.social's much lauded performance of main character dismissive ableism?
2025-03-30 21:45:54.115 / 3llmsx7oohj2d

I have to ask, does anybody think that I haven't gone through enough therapy to recognize when pop psychology buzzwords are being used inappropriately and abusively (that's what we mean when we say "therapy speak").
2025-03-30 21:45:54.116 / 3llmsxamenr2d
"Therapy"-like language is sort of designed to remove yourself from the situation just enough to gain some objective perspective and make it safe.
2025-03-30 21:45:54.117 / 3llmsxamgmb2d
@redlianak.bsky.social recently said this about academic language. But, in doing so, it can also accidentally elevate grievances and other such conclusions or emotions into objective factual context that must be unequivocally accepted.
2025-03-30 21:45:54.118 / 3llmsxamgmc2d
But this isn't true, because they're not objective factual context. It's just a more reasonable objective perspective.
2025-03-30 21:45:54.119 / 3llmsxaut622d
I think anyone who doesn't recognize that inappropriately appropriated medical terms thrown about my pop psychology rags and speedrun therapists should probably not opine on this stuff. What does everyone else think?
2025-03-30 21:45:54.120 / 3llmsxaut632d
Side note: Speaking of "therapy speak" … apparently it's TERRIBLE for me to "erase" her "context," but it's a show of good faith to erase *mine* and *demand* I never talk about it again:
2025-03-30 21:45:54.121 / 3llmsxaux332d


I identified her. I also explained I wasn't intending to say she engaged like them. *She* took offense to this and *dragged* herself into a "beef" with me. Now we're in a beef. Now we have beef with @vividfaegarden.com and @hellscapewanderer.bsky.social when they "should've just blocked & moved on."
2025-03-30 21:45:54.122 / 3llmsxboral2d
The big offense? She clearly *doesn't* and has *never* "engaged" like Poppy. But that's not true, @vividfaegarden.com and @hellscapewanderer.bsky.social proceeded to do just that and then erase it, and now they're complaining about it and acting like it's my fault.
2025-03-30 21:45:54.123 / 3llmsxbv2g32d

She apologizes to her lame-brained troll audience she thinks makes her important, but not me. She also "requests" that no one harasses me (I didn't ask for that. I can handle myself). She also "kindly [asks] that people refrain from speculation on a situation that I don't wish to speak about."
2025-03-30 21:45:54.124 / 3llmsxckxll2d

They are kindly asked, because trolls don't respond to legal threats and takedowns (which is why I *didn't* send those e-mails), so she knows it won't work.
I get legal, and potentially death, threats because I won't stop talking and they thought that'd work. It didn't.
2025-03-30 21:45:54.125 / 3llmsxd76332d
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