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As I've written previously, this whole reframing and revisionist tale is both baffling, but at the same time disappointingly mundane.
I've had the same moral philosophy, at it's core, for my entire life (42 years). It hasn't changed, and it won't change, not the core. The ideas have refined plenty.
2025-05-19 22:24:48.936 / 3lpkmgtf7422a
Suddenly, she doesn't like something I did or how I treated someone because they were in the "in-group." I say that because I treated plenty of other people the same way, but they weren't favored, so it was okay? Liana never indicated she didn't approve. So, that's the only difference I can find.
2025-05-19 22:24:48.937 / 3lpkmgtffws2a
I can only guess here since refused to clarify to me when she had the chance, but it appears she thought she'd swoop in and be the masterful 'coach' that would fix me and my anti-social opinion.
2025-05-19 22:24:48.938 / 3lpkmgtffwt2a
I told her, in clear language, that I committed to what she was looking to get from me, and that I had a regret (I apologized). I didn't offer a specific detailed plan because when I started doing that she shut it down with "blah blah blah" I thought, after that, she was expecting to offer her own.
2025-05-19 22:24:48.939 / 3lpkmgtfgw32a
And then, she fucks up the relationship by going on YouTube and lying about the situation, my involvement, and about me.
She lied.
2025-05-19 22:24:48.940 / 3lpkmgtfgw42a
It wasn't misremembering, it wasn't a misunderstanding, it wasn't confusion, it wasn't stress, it wasn't a "trauma response," and if it was it doesn't functionally matter because she spent 7 months doubling down on it, no matter what she thinks anyone has ever done.
It's a lie.
2025-05-19 22:24:48.941 / 3lpkmgtfhve2a
It's not 'inaccurate,' it's not 'sorta true,' it's not her 'perspective,' except a few shreds.
It's a falsehood that cannot be explained away.
It's a lie.
She lied.
2025-05-19 22:24:48.942 / 3lpkmgtfhvf2a
And then she expected me to come to her to make it better.
That's abuse.
She lied, and then blamed me for not making it better the way she says is appropriate. She tells victims what to do all the time.
If I picture Liana saying this, the first thing I think she'd say is, "That's abuse." You?
2025-05-19 22:24:48.943 / 3lpkmgtfhvg2a
Liana Kerzner acts abusively. She lied and wanted *me* to appeal to *her* the way *she* felt entitled to and when I didn't, well, I became "dangerous" and "unsafe."
2025-05-19 22:24:48.944 / 3lpkmgtfiuo2a
Once you lie about me we're pretty much done until rectified, but when it also has a malicious effect (not intention, effect), which it did, the relationship is over. Done. There is no relationship. A friendly relationship no longer exists.
Take note.
2025-05-19 22:24:48.945 / 3lpkmgtfiup2a
And so what did I do?
I went right back to acting how I had always acted. My moral fabric didn't change. My core philosophy hadn't changed.
She hadn't bestowed some magical moral truth that I rejected. She didn't even come close. She actually spewed rage, fear, a "trauma response," and ugliness.
2025-05-19 22:24:48.946 / 3lpkmgtfiuq2a
And any motivation I had to adjust what I was doing for my friends was gone. That's because I'm not to be saved. I'm not to be fixed.
2025-05-19 22:24:48.947 / 3lpkmgtfjty2a
I'm not to be taken care of or molded into an amicable, 'useful' person who only helps others and gets things done (read: smooths over everyone's moral failings and abuses).
No thanks.
2025-05-19 22:24:48.948 / 3lpkmgtfkta2a
Social ethic, social norms, are not morality.
I'm proud of who I am, and my moral philosophy. I didn't choose anything. There wasn't any choice on my end. Liana made the choice.
2025-05-19 22:24:48.949 / 3lpkmgtfktb2a
Liana is reacting to and pushing the narrative of a fight that only occurred or occurs in her mind.
I have no clear picture of what her insecurities might be, she never really told me much about them.
She knows mine.
2025-05-19 22:24:48.950 / 3lpkmgtfktc2a
I'm not trying to 'push' any buttons.
I have way better arguments to make than to just rail on people's feelings. I really do.
If they hurt someone's feelings, well, that happens. That's life. Sometimes reality can hurt, it's painful. But my arguments aren't about feelings.
2025-05-19 22:24:48.951 / 3lpkmgtfktd2a
That is, if anybody pays attention and doesn't just hear their judgments my words "make them think of."
Liana's are. Poppy's are. Annie's are.
Saige's and Audrey's are.
They're all feelings.
2025-05-19 22:24:48.952 / 3lpkmgtfkte2a
Oh yeah, by the way, as put on my website: asherwolfstein.com I'm not sending message to anyone. No really. I'm not. I didn't send 'nasty messages' other than what I've posted on this account and on my blog to anyone, ever.
2025-05-19 22:36:07.659 / 3lpkn32o6k42a
It's possible that someone who sent the first one with the infamous 'Ayn Rand reference' is repeating something I told someone after the incident if it's not something anybody else 'would know' (which can only be known if you're omniscient).
2025-05-19 22:36:07.660 / 3lpkn346x3m2a
I don't use Ayn Rand references in an intimidating or aggressive fashion because it would disrespectful to my hero and philosophy. Objectivism and Rand aren't weapons.
2025-05-19 22:36:07.661 / 3lpkn346x3n2a
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